Sunday, June 30, 2024

June Recap

 RIGHT NOW

I'm listening to voice in my head that says "Let's get this day started".   I had plans to connect with a friend at a local farmer's market- but she needed a rain check.  So- that was my excuse to have another cup of coffee and read some more of my book.  But now the coffee pot is empty and the clock tells me I should try to accomplish something before I run Thing 1 up to work.  

I'm loving that our summer continues to unfold at a slow and easy going pace!

As shared on our blogs, Summer for us has historically involved at least one, if not several, planned events.  

But this summer, the decision is  intentional to be less structured and hang closer to home.  I could list all the logic behind this decision- but in the end- it is what it is.   It is a summer where the entire Chang gang is at home-regrouping and preparing for new chapters.  

So- if we weren't off on great escapes-how did we pass the time this month?
Obviously- there have been a few cat naps enjoyed
and a short little escape to the high country
in search of cooler temperatures...
We had a surprise visitor one morning..
YIKES- boy was I  most grateful his visit was not 
on the morning I cooked breakfast outside!
As his presence was a tad too close for our comfort!

I've spent some time in the Hen Den
Scanning pictures-apparently to the extent that the cat 
found a new warm spot to hang out?

There's been some experimenting in the kitchen..
Be it a Hello Fresh meal
or a new cocktail to enjoy
Mother Nature decided to pay a visit
Leaving us in wonder as to whether our new roof 
could handle the impact...
Not pictured- but still memories worth savoring this month included- 
  • lunch with former co-workers who are now treasured friends.  Be it a trip to a coffee shop run by individuals with disabilities to lunch at Wendy's- it's great to maintain the connection with others.
  • An outdoor concert featuring an Eagles cover band.   Oh my- devotees of this genre of music sure are showing their age?!
  • Collecting a new bauble- after having two un-used pieces of jewelry repurposed into something I will wear routinely.
  • Making my final appearance at a neighborhood book club that I helped found nearly 15 years ago.  I'm eager to see where my love of reading will take me now that I'm not feeling the responsibility of keeping a group afloat.  
I'm feeling that this is "good enough" recap of a pretty chill month. 
Until next time-
May you find yourself with nothing
but time on your hands..
and may you lean into that feeling of 
contentment!  



Saturday, June 22, 2024

Destination- Utah 1999

Editor's Update 2024:   yet another entry that's part of my "breaking down" the old album and switching to this digital format.   The original trip occurred nearly 25 years ago- with the actual trip taking place June 23-26.

Arches National Park

The first stop on our Summer '99 vacation was Arches National Park.  We left the Denver area around 6:30 a.m. on Wed June 23rd and arrived at the park shortly after lunch.  It was a long drive but we all survived thanks to the newly re-charged air conditioning in the jeep and a video player set up in the back seat for Patrick.  Yes- nothing passes the time quite like 6+ hours of Barney, Elmo and Teletubbies!

Ah...we made it.  95 degrees in the shade!
What no shade?   Well, then it's even hotter than that...
Perhaps the most photographed and popular arch in the park..
Delicate Arch
Martha had read in the guide material they give you at the park entrance that the trail to the view point is considered "handicapped accessible."  Given she was 33 weeks pregnant, she urged Dom to let her try this easy hike.  After lots of loose rock and some steep climbs, even she conceded "Handicapped my ass!"

Part of the Park Avenue Trail
This is one of the first sections you reach as you enter the park.  The name is a reference to remarks made by early visitors that the formations resembled the skyscrapers of New York's Park Avenue
side view of the Three Gossips
North Window...
Hard to imagine that Martha had been sitting under the ride of the arch
The first night was spent in the town of Moab.  There really is not much to Moab but it is the largest town in this part of Utah.  Just south of Moab was a corny tourist stop called Hole the Rock.  Clearly someone had too much time on his hands, as he spent years carving his house into the rock.  
Patrick enjoyed running amuck in this house.  
It made us think of the Flinstones- minus the dinosaurs

Monument Valley
On our second day, we wandered further into southern Utah.  Our destination today was Monument Valley.  Dom longed to see the sights where so many classic western were filmed.

The park belongs to the Navajo Nation.  Most of the  land is actually in Arizona but the entrance is on the Utah border.  Many people will recognize these landmark rock formations from commercials and a long list of movies and TV shows have been filmed here. 
As you approach the park- you can see the rock formations for miles! 
Patrick was more interested in running around the viewing area
than posing for pictures! 
Toward the end of the 17 mile "scenic" drive, Martha and Patrick 
opted to stay in the jeep while Dom snapped away! 

Monument Valley actually lies at an elevation of over 5000 feet.  It is an example of erosion on the soft sandstone- leaving behind both pinnacles and buttes. 
Part of Three Sisters
Elephant Butte
Day 3
After spending the evening before in the very small town of Mexican Hat, we decided to take a picture of the Rock Formation for which the town got its' name

From Mexican Hat, we would make the short side trip to Gooseneck State Park.  As the guidebook suggested "this small state park will surprise you" as you reach the parking lot, a few steps to the rim, look down and Behold!  

However, too bad Martha never made it to the viewpoint as she fell in the parking lot! 
So now we have an injured, pregnant woman who still insisted on driving through Natural Bridges monument. 

However to get there, we needed to first cross up and over a mesa that included unpaved roads- something Martha the navigator missed on the map!
Natural Bridges
By this time, the pain was not abating and Martha admitted "TIME TO GO HOME"

What was to have been a week long adventure, ended on Day 3.  We made a bee- line to the ER back in Denver where it was indeed confirmed- that simple fall resulted in a fracture.   A fracture that would involve being non weight bearing for the final stretch of her pregnancy.


Update 2024- for many years, we would refer to this as "Martha's Utah curse" as in 1995- she developed severe pneumonia on a ski trip to Park City.   It would be nearly 25 years before Martha finally made it back to Gooseneck State Park- where we are happy to report, no bones were broken.  

Other things that we would put together as the years passed by- that dirt road between Gooseneck and Natural Bridges has a name- The Moki Dugway.   And no matter how many times we have since crossed it- we still recall that time I sat in the backseat with a broken foot.  

I look back and chuckle- with age comes wisdom.    What were we thinking going on a vacation- not just with a very pregnant women, but with a curious toddler who had no awareness of what danger lurked ahead.  Never mind that we picked probably one of the hottest times of the year to make this trip.  None of it makes sense to our "today selves"...but it sure does lend itself to some curious memories as we think what were were thinking????

Thursday, June 20, 2024

Destination- Europe 1998

 Editor Note:  This blog entry is part of my ongoing effort to transition from traditional scrapbooking to a digital format for story telling.   Taking apart scrapbooks- scanning pictures and trying to capture some of the stories behind the pictures.   While this post was written in June 2024 it is a recap of a trip we took in 1998.  It was my intent to just transition from what is in this paper album onto the blog- but I soon realized I would need to add to the entries to help with context and flow.   Where I have added 2024 reflections- I will head with "editor's update".   Anything else is a "real time reflection" from 1998 (or soon there after when I put the album together).  

January 8-17, 1998
Chang's European Adventure
After months of planning, it was finally time to leave for Europe.  What were we in for- traveling so far with a six month child?  How would he do on that long of a flight?  Would we battle jet lag during our entire stay?  Soon enough we would have answers to these questions.

Some people may be wondering- why Europe?  True, Thing 1 was too little to remember the trip and there were a lot of logistical hassles of traveling with a baby, but we really wanted to see our friends, Tom and Noreen and their boys.   We wanted Thing one to meet these friends.   And well, if we were going all the way to visit friends, we might as well take a little side trip to see Paris!
Our first stop was this tiny little hamlet where the Cookes were living while Tom worked for the US Army 

We would spend the first few days catching up with our friends and their two boys
Marty- about 18 months 

Our friends had become friends with a local Dutch family- The Simons
Reggy, Mary and their son, Peter
During our visit, they invited us to dinner at their home where we dined on what they referred to as Gourmet (where the T is pronounced).  It is similar to fondue except you use miniature fry pans instead of a pot of oil.

Editor's update (2024):  In 2020 I would discovered Gourmet again- only this time it would be referred to as Raclette.  It was just as delicious as I remember from our trip to the Netherlands.  I would decide then and there to buy such a cooking device- and since then- we enjoy an occasional raclette or gourmet meal.  

All Aboard!
We decided that since we were so close to Paris- we would take a two day side trip to see
 the City of Lights
The bullet train took us from Liege, Belgium to Paris in less than 3 hours!.  
It's called the bullet train because the train can cruise at speed in excess of 200 mile per hour!  
Snack time while we wait for the train
While in Paris- we would stay at the Circle National Des Armees- The French Officers Club
As both of us are officers in the US Army- we were eligible to stay at this hotel/club.  The room was spacious by European hotel standards, with a very large bathroom and cable TV.   


There was even a small balcony which provided gorgeous views of the city.   
All for just 440 francs a night!

See- spacious by European standards..

L'Arc de Triomphe
The Arc measures 40 meters wide and 50 meters high and there are 12 converging boulevards. making this both a pedestrian and driving circle nightmare.  Thank heavens there is a tunnel that allows one to cross the circle by going under the chaos.


The first night in Paris we decided to walk to the Arc as it is "just a few blocks".  Lesson learned, those were very long blocks but was well worth the walk!  

Editor's update (2024)- all the photos I took that evening were too dark and blurry to really turn out.  Each evening at 6:30 various military groups conduct a wreath laying ceremony.  We were fortunate to be there when they placed the wreath.  I liken it to our Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.    I also chuckle as I re-read just a few blocks.  Hubby would later coin this as one of my "death marches" as I have never-ending energy when it comes to walking around a new area that I find interesting- even if I pay for it later on with blisters on our feet and gentle natured teasing from the Hubby.  

The Cathedral of Notre Dame
and 
Sainte Chapelle
Editor's update (2024)- my journaling from the visit to these two cultural icons is pretty limited. Few, if any of the photos, are worth adding to this blog.  I guess in hindsight I would say we came- we snapped a few pictures and continued on our merry way.    I will say when we heard of the epic fire in 2019- I was grateful that I had been able to visit this church before the fire.   Now, in 2024, if google is to be trusted-restoration from the fire is about 90% complete.

Palace of Versailles
The famous Hall of Mirrors

Keeping with tradition-
The Changs visit a castle- of course it a perfect rainy day
Editor's update (2024):  My journaling got a little more interesting for this one-  noting that, on our way to the castle, Patrick's favorite knit blanket was dropped or lost.   Some 27 years later- we still laughingly recall "Wonder if it is still sitting in the palace lost and found?".  
The Eiffel Tower
Editor's update (2024):  Ah yes, this was clearly of the era when Martha scrapped even the blurry photos into odd shapes.  You can see now why I am breaking down these albums and going digital.  And nothing of substance is included in the journaling- comment on the weather and a sleeping baby.  What were we expecting- it was the dead of winter (when it rains a lot in Europe) and the baby was 6 months old (when they sleep as much if not more than they were awake).  It is curious to see that the countdown on the tower was to Y2K.   So much attention was given to that- only for it to be essentially a non-event.  

Les Invalides
Ah- hard to believe the morning was cold and raining but by late afternoon the skies had cleared making it a picture perfect afternoon!
Editor's update (2024):   still not much journaling other than some written notes as to what the picture is featuring.  I do find it interesting, while I journaled very little that adds context- we must have really enjoyed visiting this place as I have 4 pages (in a rather thin scrapbook) devoted to this visit.  Was it because the sun was out, the baby was awake.  Maybe.  But I think another thing we appreciated was the near non-existent crowds and that the museum itself honors France's war heroes through the years.  First built in the late 1670s- its primary purpose was to serve as housing for wounded war heroes.  The Dome church also caught our attention- with the fancy altar and how it house's Napoleon's tomb.    

We continue to thrive in visiting off-the-beaten path places with next to no other people.  Who knew this would be the beginning of a trend for our style of travel? 


It is here that we would snap two pictures that would go on to be "family classic" photos.   Out of all the pictures we took- these two have been scanned time and time again.   As I ponder "well after the fact" what made these pictures so memorable was what they show-  Patrick was awake, smiling, we found it very amusing that he was small enough to in theory be launched from the canon?   Anyways- it's just a timely reminder- to snap the picture that celebrates the ordinary- for one day it may become one of the cherished memories of an adventure.

Girl's Day Out
Editor's update (2024):   A two page layout celebrating how Noreen and I snuck away for a day of exploring the nearby bigger town of Maastritch.   As I reflect back- I remember how important those days away from the responsibilities of motherhood were.  I also remember- how much I enjoyed the movie, and to this day- it's a fun movie to watch as a rerun.

Let's Go Home
As is evident from the look on this weary traveler's face, it is time to head home.  The vacation seemed to pass by all too quickly.  But isn't that the case with any vacation?  All in all, we had a wonderful time.  It was great to see the Cookes.  And visiting Paris was indeed a special treat for Martha (Dom- not so much as he had been there before, during his Army days).  Patrick will likely not remember anything from the trip.  But with this album, we can at least prove to him that he was along on this vacation.

The time changes did not seem to phase this very mellow easy going little guy.  The flight home was essentially uneventful, until we got to Dulles and learned that our plane back to Denver was experiencing mechanical delays.  So- we made a quick run through the terminal to catch the last flight of the evening that would get us back to Denver.  This trip would route us through Dallas- but at this point- we didn't care, we just wanted to get home to our own beds.

Would we do it again?  You Betcha!

Editor's update (2024):   I like that I took the time to summarize our trip.  I had forgotten all about passing through Dallas airport.  As for whether we actually did it again?  Nope- no international trips would happen again until 2015- when we took both Things on a European adventure.   We would continue to travel extensively throughout the United States- but international travel with children (both in '98 and '15) add to the cost- and I think there just isn't a big enough return on the investment for taking kids..all things factored in.

Until next time

Take the Trip
Buy the shoes
And eat the cake...
live life without regret